I have to say, I’m feeling a little nervous but not terrible. I’m not really nervous about the wedding itself but rather nervous about being nervous (if that makes any sense).

From a financial standpoint the wedding has been tolling. I jokingly told my fiance she was no longer allowed to see the caterer anymore a few weeks ago because every time she did it was an extra thousand dollars added to the already exuberant cost. I definitely feel like we overspent for the event and could have cut costs in a lot of places. Its gotten to the point where as a finance writer I am embarrassed to say the total amount spent.

But it is her special day. We aren’t saving for a down payment on a house (or even in a starter home), have tons of debt to pay off, or aren’t saving enough for retirement so I guess its ok to indulge this once and hopefully have some great memories.