2008 Financial Goal #1 Update - Merging Finances
Personal Finance
Earlier this year I had set 5 financial goals for 2008. I thought I would take some time this month to reflect and check in on our progress on these goals. I’ll start today with out first goal:
1.) Better Merge Our Finances
Since getting married last year, my wife and I still haven’t fully merged our finances. Part laziness, complexity and fear has kept us from doing so. I have been working so far this year on fixing this but it is still not done yet. It probably will take a few more months to get everything fully integrated.
Checking Account
We have made quite a bit of progress on this so far. We’ve been working to switch to a joint Charles Schwab Investor Checking account. So far I have switched over most of my finances and direct deposits to this account. My wife has been paying some of her bills from this account and some from her other checking account while we are still making the transition. I’m hoping by the end of next month to have this fully converted. Checklist for this is as follows:
Pay all utility and house related bills from checking account.- Stop using our individual checking accounts and just use our joint one.
- Convert all credit cards to new checking account
- Get both us more involved with expenses out of this account so we do not overdraft.
Credit Cards
We have not begun merging our credit cards yet. You’ll notice I still called some expenses “her” bills. This is something that definitely needs to be worked on before the end of the year in order to meet our goals.
- Phase out my wifes American Express and merge her account into mine (since I have had mine longer and we both have the same card). This will be our primary credit card.
- Stop using our other individual credit cards and settle on some joint ones.
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My wife and I have a near similar setup to your situation.
Some bills are still “mine” and some are “hers”, we dont have all our accounts combined, etc. We’ve been married for 5 years now, and it really hasn’t been that big of a deal though. I find having the separate accounts makes budgeting and paying the bills a little easier.
Tim
TheMoneyKings.com
Tim - Yea, in the end I don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong” way to have your finances when you are married. Whatever works best for you is what you should do. I’m just hoping the effort we’re taking will simplify some of our finances.
My wife and I started out with separate accounts and then merged them. The only separate accounts we have now is our “fun money” accounts (1 each) that we deposit $180 into monthly. This is money that we can blow or save without having to check with each other. It’s worked great so far.
-1MansMoney